feeling sorry for yourself and letting life come to you gets you absolutely nowhere, instead you should love the fuck out of yourself and grab life by the balls. You’ll be on a whole new path and it will be the most beautiful thing you ever do.
people have it in their heads that there’s a certain path we’re supposed to take, certain things that we’re supposed to do, a certain life we’re supposed to live but we all know that nothing ever goes the way it’s supposed to. Things have never and will never be black and white. Nothing is perfect, no one is perfect, and no two people in a relationship or like wise are perfect. This is advice we give to others and tell ourselves every day yet, things don’t change. People still judge other people based on the decisions they make, they criticize people for the path they take, and they bash other humans for a life they live when they do things they can’t control. All while hoping subconsciously that people aren’t doing the same thing to them. It’s a twisted cycle, a selfish cycle creating a selfish world.
I don’t understand friendships, we fuck up over and over and over and they forgive us like they have to. They see us at our worst but only focus on our best. We give them multiple reasons to hate us and they still see reasons to love. It confuses me the most because we are not connected through blood, we are not family, not brother and sister, not cousins, we are not connected because we are soulmates, we are not in romantic love with each other unable to let go of the relationship we share because its so deeply filled with passion. We are simply friends, simply people who share the same interests, the same thoughts, who like to have fun together. We are just people who went to school together, who grew up in the same neighborhood, just people who hang out together, friends forgive us after we fuck up over and over and over again, they see us at our worst but only focus on our best. We give them multiple reasons to hate us and they still see reasons to love.